Unfortunately, like everything that has a strong social embedded identity, there is a risk of feeling extreme pressure to meet expectations and of developing a mental health concern. Let us put aside, for a brief moment, the sexist idea that child rearing is primarily a womans God-given designation; let us not even embark down the path of the similarly sexist ideology that a woman has to be the primary caregiver; or the fact that many families in India still prefer having a male child versus a female one. Lets instead focus the fact that today in the 21st century, we as a society are failing our mothers by not providing them with a space to talk about their mental health, their concerns, their experiences. You may also like: A therapist's guide to getting over the tough period after baby is bornIn a primarily patriarchal society, where community and society are often the foundations of family values and outlooks, we look at the concept of motherhood as a taken-for-granted virtue, and we look at women who struggle as abnormal or simply bad mothers.
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Unfortunately, like everything that has a strong social embedded identity, there is a risk of feeling extreme pressure to meet expectations and of developing a mental health concern. Let us put aside, for a brief moment, the sexist idea that child rearing is primarily a womans God-given designation; let us not even embark down the path of the similarly sexist ideology that a woman has to be the primary caregiver; or the fact that many families in India still prefer having a male child versus a female one. Lets instead focus the fact that today in the 21st century, we as a society are failing our mothers by not providing them with a space to talk about their mental health, their concerns, their experiences. You may also like: A therapist’s guide to getting over the tough period after baby is bornIn a primarily patriarchal society, where community and society are often the foundations of family values and outlooks, we look at the concept of motherhood as a taken-for-granted virtue, and we look at women who struggle as abnormal or simply bad mothers.
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