Talking to children about bodies, relationships, and growing up doesn’t have to be awkward. The right books can make these important conversations natural, age-appropriate, and even enjoyable for both parents and kids.
Whether you’re explaining where babies come from, discussing body boundaries, or helping your child understand identity, choosing books with the right tone makes all the difference. Some take a scientific approach, while others focus on emotions. Some are gentle and nurturing, while others are straightforward.
The key is finding books that match your family’s values and your child’s developmental stage. A curious 4-year-old needs different information than an 8-year-old navigating body changes. The best sex education books meet children exactly where they are, answering questions honestly while building confidence and healthy attitudes.
Recently, we spoke to Anju Kish, one of India’s leading voices in safety and sexuality education. This episode is an eye-opener. It tackles questions all of us wonder about but often avoid. From “What does the F word mean?” to “How do I talk about periods or porn?”, Anju breaks it down with practical, judgment-free advice. She even shares how her kids reacted when she began talking about these topics publicly.
Here’s our curated list of the best sex education books for children, organised by age group, with descriptive words to help you choose what feels right for your family.
3-5 Years
Amazing You by Dr. Gail Saltz
A gentle and natural introduction to how bodies work, this book celebrates curiosity and development in a warm, age-appropriate way. It helps normalise body talk for little ones simply and respectfully.
What Makes A Baby by Cory Silverberg
An inclusive, science-based book that explains reproduction without assumptions about gender, family, or orientation. Perfect for answering those “where do babies come from?” questions honestly and clearly.
It’s Not The Stork by Robie Harris
Straightforward, funny, and factual- this book helps young kids understand their bodies and where babies come from. It’s frank yet reassuring, perfect for early conversations about bodies and birth.
Body Boundaries Make Me Stronger by Elizabeth Cole
This empowering book teaches children about body safety, personal space, and saying “no” with confidence. Clear, protective, and essential for laying the foundation of consent.
My Body, I Decide by Srishti Agrawal
A bold and empowering read that teaches children autonomy and decision-making about their bodies. It encourages confidence, independence, and body respect from an early age.
Being You: A First Conversation About Gender by Jessica Ralli
Welcoming and thoughtful, this book explores gender in an open and curious tone suitable for very young readers. It’s a great first step toward inclusive conversations about identity and belonging.
5-8 Years
Let’s Talk About the Birds & Bees by Molly Potter
Warm, practical, and refreshingly relatable, this book explains sex and relationships in a way kids (and parents!) can understand. It’s the perfect conversation starter for curious minds and nervous grown-ups.
Nonnie Talks About Gender by Mary Jo Podgurski
This affirming and compassionate book celebrates identity and encourages young readers to embrace who they are. Empowering and non-judgmental, it helps children understand and respect diverse gender expressions.
Making A Baby by Rachel Greener
A nurturing and heartfelt introduction to conception, pregnancy, and birth that respects all kinds of families. Its simplicity and gentle tone make complex ideas easy for little ones to grasp.
It’s So Amazing by Robie Harris
This detailed, fascinating guide gives a comprehensive overview of bodies, sex, and puberty in a way that’s friendly and accessible. Great for kids who want more than just the basics — and parents who want accuracy.
My Body My Safe Space by Percy Ellis May
Focused on boundaries and trust, this secure and reassuring book helps children feel safe and strong in their own skin. Ideal for teaching personal safety in a protective, age-appropriate way.
8-11 Years
Sex Is A Funny Word by Cory Silverberg
Respectful, sensitive, and body-positive, this book gives older kids a safe and honest space to explore questions about sex and identity. It’s inclusive and balanced, making it a standout in modern sex education.
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Celebrate Your Body by Sonya Renee Taylor
A joyful, uplifting guide to puberty that encourages girls to love their changing bodies. Positive and empowering, it’s a celebration of self-worth and growth.
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Growing Up Great by Scott Tednem
Optimistic and supportive, this puberty guide helps boys understand physical, emotional, and social changes with clarity. A great motivational tool to navigate growing up with confidence.
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I’m Growing Up, Now What? by Donia Youssef
This helpful and preparatory book supports children as they move through life’s big changes. It offers guidance with kindness, making transitions feel less scary and more manageable.
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