And that’s 2022 almost flown past us in a jiffy! Are you still wondering what’s the status of your resolutions from this year? I am and I must confess that since most of them were a tad unrealistic and maybe bordering on impractical, I couldn’t get to them by the end of the year. So note to self- set more realistic goals this year!
That’s what we moms at Kidsstoppress decided when we sat down to discuss what our resolutions should be for 2023. In addition to the usual fitness ones and maybe increasing the tally of new books read, changing or tweaking our parenting style to be a happier mom in 2023 is what most moms will aspire for. Agree?
We asked a few of our contributors on what their mommy resolution was for 2023. Here is what they had to say! Whose goal do you connect to, the most?!
The need of the hour is gentle parenting to help kids express themselves. Not ones who are threatening and punish the kids. Agree? To make things easier and smoothen the process, I believe setting a perfect time table works for all. Easy to follow, and no hassles! To top it, meditation is my go-to mantra to help me bond better with the kids. and meditation makes works easier. let schedule our day and follow the same to have healthy relationships with your little one. Also, as a parent, I hope to spend less on my child’s clothes and toys, and the money I save can bring a smile on another needy child’s face. And just like all moms, i want to help reduce my child’s screen time and engage in more activities that help me bond better. I also hope this year helps me finish my night chores earlier so I don’t miss out on sleep. And I am hoping to help wean my kids off junk foods and instead treat them to delicious and healthy homemade foods that soon becomes a part of their lifestyle
I hope to be more patient and less judgmental in the coming year. This is in relation to not just others around me, but also towards myself. We, tend to be very harsh on ourselves and that reflects on how we behave with others as well. It’s important to be kind to yourself. That’s what I am aiming for in the coming year.
As mums we tend to put a lot of needs mainly that of our kids and spouses before our own. What we tend to forget so often is that a ship without a captain is sure to meet with disaster at some point. My resolution not just for the year ahead but as of the last few weeks. Is to take a step back and see mental health as a priority. Physical health and diet too yes but mental health is a lacuna in most of our lists. I hope other mums will do the same!
I would want to become calmer as a parent and really connect with my child more.
My resolution for 2020 is to be present in every moment, I spend with my daughter.
The gist is clear. Moms want to spend more quality time with the kids, and bond better, cherish each moment and at the same time, we are glad the awareness for ‘me-time’ is slowly but steadily sinking in! We can’t agree more!
What’s your mommy resolution? Let us know in the comments below!
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