This Is What Happens When Moms Lend Their Support To Each Other

I read through the group rules and try to follow their etiquette- where most admins lovingly say please don’t judge or be nasty let’s support each other. In my growing years, I have seen my mum save for our help’s children, pay their school fees and make sure they completed their graduation. I have in fact slowly learnt to support, sometimes just by listening. You may also like: SAHM vs Working MomsThere are a million heartwarming examples where women support each other and build communities, make pathways that seem impossible.
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I am a part of some of the FB mommy groups and of course, we all have our offline clan. I read through the group rules and try to follow their etiquette- where most admins lovingly say please don’t judge or be nasty let’s support each other. It’s beautiful, to not know the person you’re talking to but to share a bit of your expertise or yourself on an open platform. I would also say that it is brave. It is the power of the social networking platform put to good use. I have noticed women get advice, different point of view, release, friendship and fun.

I truly believe that miracles happen when we selflessly support each other. All women are fabulous support systems by themselves, our ability to multitask, do more than possible, do the unthinkable is admirable. So, when we collectively support each other I know we can shift massive mountains.

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In my growing years, I have seen my mum save for our help’s children, pay their school fees and make sure they completed their graduation. I know it was her way of expressing gratitude for her time and long service or her plain love. She did what she had to and forgot about it, till we bumped into our help’s daughter at a wedding. She came running to my mum and said “Aunty do you remember me? I am XYZ’ s daughter, I now work in a bank and this is my husband and we just bought our first car. Thank you!! ” She gave my mum a hug and left. My mom’s eyes were filled with happy tears! There was some precious learning for me there. A simple act of love or kindness can make a big difference to someone else. My tiny support could be someone’s else raft.

Over the years, I have learnt not to judge. Especially, any mom! For her choices, for the roles she plays or how she chooses to nurture her kids. Each mom wants the very best for her child and does what she deems right at that very point. It’s hard enough to not judge yourself but having so many around doing the same can be overwhelming and detrimental both. I have in fact slowly learnt to support, sometimes just by listening. I may not fully agree with some decisions but at times all one needs is a shoulder to lean on. Listen without judging. It may be a story to me but it may be cathartic to the person in the discussion. It is the silent support that runs deep.

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There are a million heartwarming examples where women support each other and build communities, make pathways that seem impossible. If every thought has an energy to it then all we need to do is send a wonderful thought to the next woman who passes by. A good ear, a true smile, a genuine laughter, a big hug or a long chat. Create your miracle today!

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