You know how as parents we say things like, “Don’t throw like a girl”, “As a girl you should dress like this only”, and even, “You are a girl, don’t think you can do the same thing that boys can”.  Ever stop for a moment and wonder whether are kids absorb all this subconsciously?
We live in a world where newspapers report instances of rape and sexual molestation every day. The statistics are there to prove it too. Try to wrap your head around this – in 2012 alone 24,923 rape cases were reported across India. Of these 24,470 were committed by someone known to the victim (98% of the cases). These statistics were part of the National Crime Records Bureau’s 2013 annual report.
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Where are we as a country that reveres women and places them on pedestals as goddesses going wrong? Shouldn’t we make sure we raise our kids to respect women and to speak up when they see a woman being assaulted. That is the crux of Hindustan Times’ latest campaign simply called Let’s Talk About Rape.
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The national daily has roped in eight eminent Indians to write open letters that address the issue of rape and sexual assault in India. Starting this series is actor, director, producer, poet Farhan Akhtar who in an open letter to his daughter writes,
What is this country that I live in?
That takes away her right to love
Brutalises her with an iron glove
Rapes her without fear
of there being justice for her tear…
…what do I tell my daughter?
That she’s growing up to be lamb for the slaughter
we’ve got to make a change
Reboot, reformat, rearrange,
and never give in
no matter how much our head may spin
Just keep asking the question
What is this country that I live in?